 (ARA) - Transitioning into the role of caregiver can be difficult. To some degree, helping a loved one just comes naturally. But because of that, many caregivers rarely consider the emotional, physical and financial toll this new role may be taking on them.
Most people end up as caregivers without any advance warning or preparation for the role, according to Disaboom, the largest online community for people with disabilities. Instead, an accident or medical condition has created a situation where a loved one requires help.
A few daily activities where help may be required include: balancing checkbooks, shopping for groceries, giving medications, assisting with doctor's appointments, preparing food, and helping with bathing and dressing.
Here are some helpful suggestions from Disaboom.com for caregivers:
Start a "questions" list.
Get organized as soon as possible. This list becomes the starting point for taking control in the caregiving role and lets the caregiver deal with the questions without being overwhelmed by them.
Figure out what help is needed.
Caregiving is a team effort, with the caregiver as the team leader. Every situation is different, but it's important to understand that all caregivers need help no matter how tough or independent they may be.
Identify who can provide that help.
Is it family, friends, professional providers, community organizations, local government agencies, or even church members? Many disabling conditions also have national organizations that provide information, resources, and a network of support that can help. Be sure to check the Disaboom Resource Center for associations that might be able to offer assistance.
Move toward establishing a daily/weekly routine.
As a caregiver, it's easy to feel like life is out of control. The reality is that sometimes it will be, but it's a good idea to get a regular schedule in place for both the caregiver and the person being cared for. Routine is comforting and provides a sense of familiarity and security for both parties.
Caring for the caregiver.
Caring for another person, even those most loved, can be as exhausting as it is rewarding. In order to protect the well-being of the person being cared for, it's essential to protect the mental, physical, and emotional health of the caregiver.
Focus on fitness.
Caregiving can be stressful and the body has some very definite ideas about responding to stress, none of them good over a long period of time. The antidotes are exercise, eating healthy, and doing calming activities like meditation or getting a massage.
Take steps to stay connected.
Caregivers can easily begin to feel isolated; the effort to get out of the house and connect with others may seem to be too much. As part of your staying connected, consider participating in one or more of the Disaboom forums, ask questions, answer them, and connect with others who share a similar situation. Also, blogging about your experiences is a great way to express ideas as well as emotions.
Visit Disaboom's comprehensive Caregiving Resource Section at Disaboom.com to learn more about the art of caregiving and how to avoid burnout.
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